“..Why I’d Rather Sleep with a Man over 50..”
“..Rippling, hard muscles.
Firm six pack.
Tight, round butt.
He undresses you hurriedly.
Your pulse is racing.
You open your eyes to see a chiseled twenty-five-year-old face with the look of fiery hunger burning in his eyes.
He wants you desperately.
You want him madly.
Your kisses are delicious and wet and deep and full.
Your passion builds.
Your breath comes faster.
He pumps faster and faster, harder and harder …
Sound good?
Before you decide, consider this: The whole scene, start to finish, took twenty minutes, max.
Fortunately, he is resilient.
He has a brief recovery time-out, and you start all over again.
This time, if you are lucky, he thinks about you and your orgasm.
If you are in a typical situation, you may reach orgasm or you might feel pressure to fake it.
Of course, he thinks you are loving it.
And, why wouldn’t he?
You are telling him so, over and over, as we are taught to do as women.
In the end, though the experience was hot and passionate, the emphasis was on performance, not pleasing.
Not all experiences with every twenty-five-year-old man turn out this way, but this scenario is not uncommon.
Truth be told, you probably had fun.
It could have been a lot more pleasing, however, if you were somehow able to tell him to slow down, tease, play, and give you what you want.
Chances of that happening are slim, though, especially in a moment of raw lust like this.
Even in the most solid of relationships, sex is a very difficult subject to discuss.
Consequently, couples don’t talk, they perform.
Most younger men do what they are hard wired to do (get erect and ejaculate) and women (literally) go along for the ride.
Let me tell you, it can be so much better.
All it takes is an old guy!
Men over fifty, sixty, seventy-five, even ninety can be great lovers for three basic reasons.
Primarily, they are not in a hurry.
Secondly, they put their partner’s needs first.
Thirdly, they have learned that great sex doesn’t have to include intercourse at all — it’s only one option..
Why, then, do we denounce older men as lovers?..”
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